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Dropping Handles
Some of the traditions of the Corps of
Cadets at Texas A&M go back a substantial portion
of its over 125-year history. Often, they reflect the
social customs of that earlier time. In the 19th century,
and the majority of the 20th century, the normal forms
of address were characterized by a great deal of formalism.
Unless and until directed otherwise, a younger person
always addressed an older person by Mister or Mrs.,
as a sign of courtesy and respect. And, in keeping with
longstanding military custom, fish in the Corps addressed
upper classmen as "Mr. <lastname>, Sir,"
and those upper classmen addressed a freshman as "fish
<lastname>." The default form of address
for pissheads
with sergebutts
and zips (and
for sergebutts with zips) was to use the upper classman's
last name only. A cadet's formal name was considered
his "handle".
For fish, this arrangement with the upper
classmen in their outfit lasted until the very end of
the Spring semester, when the fish had earned the right
to be slightly less formal in forms of address. Then,
in a process called "dropping handles", each
upper classman would notify each fish, in turn, that
from that time on, they both were free to address each
other by their first names. Usually the process started
with the zips, because they were leaving the Corps soon.
A short time later, the sergebutts would start dropping
handles with the fish. Finally, a very short time before
Final Review, the pissheads would finally drop handles
with the fish.
The exact process was unique to each upper
classman, and often governed by some outfit tradition.
Most often, it involved the fish having to do some final
physical exertion to gain the upper classman's grudging
respect. When the upper classman was satisfied, he asked
the fish, "What's your mother call you?" (since
every fish's first name was "fish", it would
be pointless to ask a fish, "What's your first
name?"). The fish would respond, and then the upper
classman would say something along the lines of, "My
mother calls me <firstname>," or "Call
me <firstname>." After a handshake, the ceremony
was over.
Until slightly before our fish year, the
process was called "beating off handles",
and involved the application of an axe-handle or some
other paddle-like device to the buttocks of the fish
with varying degrees of force. My father, class of 1944,
has told me numerous times of how, after several such
encounters with his upper classmen, that he had to use
the showers to soak his underwear off his posterior.
By 1968, the State laws and University rules prohibiting
physical hazing strictly prohibited that kind of contact
between students, but, as with most rules that attempt
to stop a decades-old tradition, it was often broken.
In an attempt to completely stamp out the practice,
the current Corps Standard dictates that mere possession
of an axe handle on campus is grounds for severe disciplinary
action.
Each of us has memories, some fond, some
not, of how our upper classmen dropped handles with
us. A few of the zips already considered themselves
ready to leave the Corps behind, and skipped any physical
interaction. Some dragged out a paddle or axe handle,
and then just tapped the fish's buttocks. And some of
them apparently wanted to continue their red-ass reputations,
and to leave a lasting impression, and they did. Some
of them were actually gentlemen, and some were just
sadists. And, of course, there were the wise-ass fish
who sometimes responded, "My mother calls me 'fish',
sir; she's real Old Army."
Dropping handles was a little different
between an under-classman in one outfit and an upper
classman in another. That situation could occur at any
time during the year, for any reason the older of the
two deemed sufficient, and almost never involved anything
physical. Sometimes it was that they were from the same
hometown, were related, needed an informal interaction
in some on- or off-campus organization, or knew each
other prior to coming to A&M. Upper classmen who
had dropped handles with a fish were called the fish's
"drop-handle buds." One pisshead, Miles Yanta,
dropped handles with me at fish camp, just because our
last names were so similar.
Strangely enough, I seem to have
little trouble remembering upper classmen dropping handles
with me, but I have almost zero memory of dropping handles
with the three fish classes who came after us in Heaven's
Eleven. But, as an adult, I continue the tradition -
I always call an older person "Mr." or "Mrs."
until told otherwise, and I usually have a lesser opinion
of younger people who don't extend me the same courtesy.
Sometimes, when they're from somewhere outside of the
southern U.S., and can't be expected to know any better
(like some of my daughter's boyfriends), I have to give
them some gentle education. I guess some of that "Soldier,
Statesman, Knightly Gentleman" stuff did take,
after all.
John (Yankus) Yantis
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